If you have to allow every time you runs Xcode..
here is the soluation
1. Open command tool
2. sudo /usr/libexec/ApplicationFirewall/socketfilterfw --setglobalstate off
3. /usr/libexec/ApplicationFirewall/socketfilterfw --add /Applications/Xcode.app/Contents/MacOS/Xcode
4. /usr/libexec/ApplicationFirewall/socketfilterfw --add /Applications/Xcode.app/Contents/Developer/Applications/iOS\ Simulator.app/Contents/MacOS/iOS\ Simulator
5. sudo /usr/libexec/ApplicationFirewall/socketfilterfw --setglobalstate on
then restart your system